Strategies for Dealing with Usenet Bullies
The very first thing you should do
Nothing.
At all.
The second thing you should do
Refuse to respond.
Well, what SHOULD I do?
Ignore the bullies. They want attention. They want to control you and your
group. As they say, they want to "own" you.
But my group is
unusable! What do I do?
Set some filters. Ignore them and their trash. You have some choices.
Unsubscribe. Just abandon your group to the bullies. It is what a lot of people
do. They don't want or need the grief. It will grow quiet when only bullies
post. Or at least no one will care. What other options? Use your group exactly
as you would if the bullies had never posted there. Let me use a military
analogy. What do you do if your net's frequency is being jammed by the enemy?
Work through the interference. Pass your message, don't acknowledge that you are
being jammed? What? Why? The enemy has no idea how effective his jamming may be.
The only way to gauge jamming effectiveness is to listen to the net and
see if communications are disrupted. If the net behaves normally - no one is
complaining about the jamming, people acknowledge one another's transmissions
without asking for things to be repeated over and over, etc. - then the enemy
must assume their jamming is ineffective, so they will try a more lucrative
target and leave you alone. While it is unlikely the bullies will just stop
posting, you will be denying them what they want, and you will be doing what you
want. In time, your group will have much less bully crap in it, because they
need to control, and you will be showing no signs of being controlled. That
makes your group no fun.
OK, makes sense, but what about the people who
ALWAYS respond?
THAT is a problem. Don't respond to the bullies. DO respond to the first
responders. In RL first responders are good guys, but not on Usenet. Help those
who respond to the bullies to chill. Point them here. Suggest that they join FIA.
Ultimately, if they just cannot stop responding to the bullies, you are just
going to have to killfile them, just as you killfile the bullies. What choice do
you have? But try to work with them, at least for a while, and try to get them
to understand how useless (and destructive) their behavior is.