What are the differences between bullies and plain old trolls?
Excellent question. First, what is a troll, and how does a troll cross the line
to become a bully? The definition
is found in many places. The alt.syntax.tactical
FAQ is one of the best resources to learn about trolls (and bullies) and how
to deal with them. The excellent Anti
Troll FAQ describes classic trolls as "old definition" or
"irritating" trolls. It then goes on to describe
"destructive", "nasty", or "evil and illegal"
trolls. These are better described as bullies. Trolling is not their primary
purpose for being in your newsgroup. By this FAQ's definition, these are
bullies, not trolls. A troll posts something outrageous in a newsgroup in an
attempt to gather the maximum number of outraged replies. It is an
attention-getting thing. A bully needs to control. Again, check both the
excellent FAQs cited. READ them. Then, read on.
How long does it take to spot a troll?
Usually it takes less than a second. If someone (who is the target of a
troll's wrath) posts anything in a newsgroup (especially something helpful),
they are on it like a duck on a June bug. If it is hateful and spiteful, you
probably have a troll on your hands, and you may well have a bully on your
hands. Read on.
So, when does a troll cross the line and become a bully?
When he/she stops merely seeking attention and starts trying to control
other people.
The playground bully syndrome
The classical definition of a playground bully describes a person who is a
socially inadequate outsider, but more recent studies reveal them to be clever
and cunning manipulators who have an above-average ability to see what makes
others tick and who use this ability to gain control over others and torment
them. They become adept at tuning in the apprehensions and fears upon which to
play. They find buttons and push them. When they can make someone respond to
them in predictable fashion, they believe that they "own" that person.
Remember another aspect of the playground bully. They reign supreme when the
other "normal" kids on the playground not only turn a cold shoulder to
the bully's victims, but even join in the taunting (for fear they will be the
bully's next victim).
What about cyberbullies?
Cyberbullies are serial bullies who use the Internet (or in this case,
Usenet) as their playground for bullying and controlling others. The characteristics
of a serial bully are found at Bullyonline.org. All you have to do is read a
few lines to see what our Usenet bullies are all about.
It's about hate.
The bullies seem to need an enemy to hate. I suppose it's necessary to have a
scapegoat for their lack of any real purpose on Usenet. So they pick on anyone
who is highly visible in a newsgroup, and they start attacking. Their attacks
need not be based on any truth. Any trumped up accusation will do. Then they
repeat their attacks, again and again and again.
Victory
The alt.syntax.tactical (A.S.T.) FAQ is highly instructional. While the
bullies described in this FAQ display somewhat different characteristics and
employ somewhat different tactics, they are not so different that we will not
benefit from examining the A.S.T. troll's "signs of victory":